The pros and cons of dating
And if you don’t have a strong sense of self when you’re in high school, it can be easy to share everything with him to gain validation.
When I was in high school I was in two choirs and insanely involved in my youth group.
I also took several AP classes, so schoolwork took up a bunch of my time too. Realistically, I knew I could make a relationship work despite my busyness, but it would be hard.
But I do wish I had some sort of experience to help me out.If the guy in question was the right guy for me, then it wouldn’t matter whether or not we dated in high school. No need to stress about if he’s “the one” or not when in high school.Okay, first I feel like I need to say that I know some people get married right after they graduate high school, and that is a different story.That winter, my youth group had a lock-in and one of my really close friends (who was 2 years older than me and so had already graduated high school) came to help out.I had previously talked to her about my crush and my decision not to date in high school. “I just have no idea I shouldn’t date in high school anymore. I shouldn’t stick with something that I said I’d do when I was 14 if I don’t know the reasons, right? She and I then grabbed a piece of paper and brainstormed all the pros and cons of dating in high school.