My friend is dating an older man
He says he wants to be with me forever and that he loves me- I mean, could see us being like that but does he really mean it or is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear?
He’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me, but sometimes he won’t call or text the whole day.
And no, “clues” to a guy does not include a facial expression, voice tone or some kind of hint. Bottom line: If you show your boyfriend exactly how to make you happy, he will do his best to do it. He still call me everyday and gets mad when I talk to other guys. It all seems to me as a really bad joke from Nature…and a very bad lie, delusion and fraud from hormones, emotions and everything that make a woman have feelings as a woman yet when she is small and growing up….is a trap for her…since a little girl when she believes that once when she is a lady her dreams about her and her husband (love) will fulfill…and she search from one man to another and will never find what she REALLY NEEDS…
To a man, a woman who is thoroughly happy with him is a beautiful woman. He said I should give him and myself time before I go jump into other relationship . She will learn new rules of men´s games, reading articles about how men are thinking, feeling to make it better, but it is only blind HOPE for her, it hepls only for a while – she just understand him but she still doesn ´t det what she needs…then she just learn how to supress her needs inside of her and try not to suffer so bad…but it is not like true enjoying life, just surviving…because it is not NATURAL for her to behave like that and she suffer, some of them bedome ill, get cancr etc…only men can heal it and stop us from suffering…but they will not do that, because they have 10000 reasons, at first that it is not NATURAL for man to behave just a woman needs….
Let me tell you, nothing makes me angrier faster than having a woman tell me I “always” do something (whatever it is) wrong or that I “never” do something (whatever it is) right. He said that he was in a 10 year on and off relationship with his son mother and they were engaged to be married. He moved out and they broke it off wedding and all. He also mentioned that I don’t seem to show him as much love as he show me and that he has loss himself trying to be everything for me, being late for work from talking to me. He works like 15 hours a day for the past 3 months . But what I want to say, that I am not feel like living in this world now.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about three months now.
We’ve already had sex and I think we took it way too fast.
But just because somebody should do something doesn’t mean they will, for whatever reason. ;) But be that as it may, it does bother you and my bet is that you are trying to figure out a way to address it without making him defensive or damaging the relationship.
My feeling is that you should take this as an opportunity to learn how to deal with this sort of thing… First and foremost, get a handle about how you feel about it.