How to become intimidating
If you’re not careful, you could: - Be seen as someone who doesn’t listen to other’s concerns - Have trouble working as a part of a team - Not develop the social networks needed to be manage your career - Be seen as aloof, or even arrogant - Be seen as unenthusiastic about people or projects - Have trouble in front of groups, making presentations - Be seen as hard to read, and hard to trust Yikes, would would have known? I didn’t realize the negative effect I was have having on people until someone pointed it out.In order to avoid these potential problems, here are 7 tips for all of you engineers, scientists, accountants, programmers, and managers that want to up your sociability game: 1. Once I started doing it (and it hurt), it had amazing results.However, it’s important not to use “that’s just the way I am” as an excuse for not addressing behaviors that are limiting your leadership potential. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . It’s also hard for an extrovert to give advice to an introvert on how to be more approachable and sociable. It's a development need for me, and something I'm working on to improve.
This leads us to question, Well, the interesting thing about intimidation is that the root of it is also the remedy.
You may find when you reflect on the situation that you felt the way you did when you were a kid and realize that those feelings are no longer relevant.
You may be believing that there is something you need to do or be to win someone’s affection or approval when in reality you just need to relax and be yourself and let go of needing so much to be liked by others.
You may be believing that the other person is thinking something negative about you that is purely conjecture you are poisoning your mind with.
When you notice and begin to challenge your assumptions, they lose their hold on you.