Dating a sociopath woman
It is a great description of dysfunctional behavior in a woman, so it is reproduced here in order to help others.I am a 60 year old male who was living with a 50 year old female for three years. I wrote a letter to my Ex-girlfriend a few days after I left.I found peace in being able to talk with you about anything in my life and past.However, unlike a healthy intimate relationship, you have used my deepest confidences and thoughts against me.But I found that I had to leave the joy in the moment. You withdraw your affection and attention to punish me. I wish you would own up fully to what you have done and stop making excuses and blaming others. Accept responsibility and recognize that your abusive behavior is a choice. It was obvious that you wanted me out of your house because you didn’t want any more of my clothes there. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know the things that have been making you uncomfortable. I don’t want to take a break from you but I do think that this is something that we will need to discuss in order to be able to move forward. I care about you deeply as a person and hope to continue to enjoy your company.I could not assume that because you smiled a minute ago that the smile would be there when I looked again. Accept the consequences of your actions and behaviors. I have noticed a change in my demeanour, appearance, and self-esteem as a result of being in our relationship. Well, you wanted your house back and my clothes out of your closet. I will review things more later, but I want you to know that I care about you and love you very much. I do hope that we will continue to talk on the phone and keep up with each other.I have come to realized that I had started developing coping mechanisms of denial and minimizing in order to deal with the stress.The effects of this emotional abuse over time have caused me emotional trauma, including depression and anxiety. All my love, Her name Sweetheart, It was difficult to read some of the things that you wrote in your e-mail to me, but I can accept that you feel that way.
I packed my belongings, threw them in the car and just walked out of the house never to return.The whole process took about 20 minutes and she just sat at her computer never saying a word as I vacated.I started doing research online regarding anti-social personality disorders. I was searching for things to read because I was hurting.Either way, understanding the origins of the disorder doesn't make having a relationship with a narcissist any more fun — and I should know.My ex was most definitely a narcissist, and the signals aren't something to take lightly: narcissists have a strong reputation for emotional abuse.