Dating a man ten years older
Of course, factors other than hormones affect sexuality, for example, being experienced at sex, but a man increases his chances of sexual compatibility by marrying an older woman. Having lived longer, a person is more likely to have maturity that comes with age: not to fight so much about trivia, not as likely to have an affair having gotten that out of her system.
Marrying an older woman, on average, means marrying a more mature person. Parenting is far more difficult and stressful than many people realize.
To be honest though, I'm seeing more men date women 20 years younger then them. Maybe thats a bit harsh or "closed" minded but really i put the same belief on women dating men 20 years younger as well.
My rule of thumb is, if the person im with could technicaly have concieved a child the same as me then they are too old and if I, by age, could have concieved a child the same age as the younger prospect then he is to young. Some people in excellent health are biologically 10 years younger than their average age peers. Assuming two adults, the older person's age, divided by 2, plus 7.
If you'd feel more comfortable growing old with someone in similar shape to you, consider an older woman.
Marrying an older woman may even yield benefits fairly early in a marriage.
I expand on those in the article, Should You Marry This Person?
It requires great maturity and equanimity to consistently set limits but not excessive ones, remain calm, and collaboratively solve problems with your child.
A 30-something is more likely to have that maturity than is a 20-something. As mentioned, older people have had more time to advance in their career.
Even still, his oldest child is 18 and even she doesnt think it appropriate her father date me. So, if I'm...60, and ...he's 38, things might work. If two people are committed to each other that is the most crucial thing.
I knew in my heart that marrying my husband was a good fit.