Dating a man going through divorce
Not only will both you and your husband's conduct be scrutinized during a custody case, but also so will be the conduct of your boyfriend.If he has a shady background, it will be used against you.
This can even apply to temporary support order, because once again, you are sharing the expenses with someone else.
He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.
If you have children, then you also need to realize that it's in your best interest to try to keep a cordial relationship with your husband.
There is no distinction between platonic contacts and ones that are romantic or sexual, although from a practical standpoint, the romantic/sexual relationships are the ones that draw scrutiny and cause complications.
The reason divorce lawyers counsel against dating while the divorce is pending, even if separated, is that it has the potential to increase both the cost and the stress of the divorce trial. Judges, however, rarely punish someone who begins dating – sexually or otherwise – once they have physically separated from their spouse.