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While we never even flirted while we were all married, we always got along. She is furious and accused us of having an affair because we started seeing each other while they were separated. She is calling all their friends and calling him a cheater and me a hussy. — No Shenanigans Dear No: What is there to feel horrible about? So I got a midday “joking” email about how no one wished him a happy birthday. Again Dear I Forgot: In the time you spent writing this question, you could have set yourself five “dad’s birthday” reminders on as many different e-platforms.I feel horrible, but she and I have not been in contact for several years. If it’s just that someone you (used to) care about is in pain, then I can see that. More: Carolyn Hax: Cutting off sister-in-law’s weight-shaming at the pass More: Carolyn Hax: Maybe you’re un-neighborly neighbor here But in the story you tell, you’re rivals only of her making; you had no falling out with her seven years ago, and no role in breaking a marriage already broken. I hope that’s hyperbole; even if you were somehow an agent of her marriage’s demise, the backchannel smear is not the path to making herself whole. I feel guilty, but this could all be avoided if he just gave his forgetful family a little warning instead of playing this game very year. Time to ask yourself who’s playing games here and why. Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection?

The husbands had a falling out seven years ago and we all stopped speaking.

But when "buddy" feelings start giving way to deeper heart feelings, it is rare to ever go back to "buddies." I advise that you have "that" conversation with her. It could be that, as you mentioned, she has had the same thoughts and is favorable to the idea. It will be a little weird at first, but that will eventually smooth out when you both get used to the idea.

There is no special secret to it; you just have to do it. It could be that the whole concept is a bit of a shock to her and she’s not quite sure what to do with it. Give her some time to think it through, but she does need to know that for you, there is no going back to "just friends." Your heart has already made that decision for you, and not moving forward still means change, and probably one that will be difficult.

I feel that in the end, we would eventually need to talk about our intentions because hanging out alone now may feel like a date to me because of my change in feelings, but to her it probably is "just friends hanging out" unless she secretly likes me, too. First, I like the idea of a dating relationship having some friendship history.

If a dating/courtship relationship is anything, it should be an amazing friendship.

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