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If that's the case, I'll admit it's pretty hard to find.
It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after.
You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.
After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.
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They may be sold to a different owner who uses different standards or may engage in some of those shady practices to boost membership and use. You simply have to watch your back on any online dating site.
These recommendations are just for a snapshot in time.
Good sites can go bad, and those I don't recommend may improve.
To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.
Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?